Consider the two sides of a coin. One female and one male. The female side is full of emotions and the male side is total emptiness.
If you give both an equal amount of hurt, who would suffer more?
That's why men rule the world. They seek to escape the hurt by searching for the never to be found boundaries of the emptiness, while women smother exiting hurt by full engagement.
Yet, if you try to grasp this, you're just reaching for the coin.